Monday, Februan, ; boos AGGIELIFE by, February 14, 2000 THE BATTALION Page 3 ingle servings ofthing s of candy,” Hare said But it seems womenJ at ‘the way to a mat I id buying the basket Straight from the heart ouples should be considerate to the opposite sex on Valentine's Day CHAD ADAMS!hi[ tn biology major,i :a kiosk in the me intinucd from/Vj II eventually be' oses and teddy bears, choco- ates and candies. Yes, it is time again for Valentines Day, the lay out of365 that we are required io\v the ones we love how we really about them. |t sounds simple, as just uttering the love you” would be sufficient, his holiday does not work that way, Kollege is not like the sixth grade ■n students could just pick out the oJest Superman valentine and put it on Bush's desk. Tilings have become Kh more complieated since then, and pi students have to worry about find- perfect surprise to let that one on know how deeply we care, fans people stress and lose sleep how to make the day special for Jr sweetie. St. Valentine was executed 70 for secretly mam ing couples de- e a decree issued by Emperor [udius II forbidding marriage wdius felt married men made poor iers because they did not want to : their families). Valentine fell in with the blind daughter of his jailer, his love for her restored her vision, cording to the site, before he died, he te a note to the girl signed, “From r Valentine,” making his note the first lentine card in history. If St. Valentine only knew thecifect erviewing skills \\ liis legendary act of love committed so check blue sere: |6ng ago has on us today. 53. So guys, do you know what you are ing to do for your lady this year? four Valentine’s Day can all depend on foui motive. If you are trying to get lomeone to take interest in you, you inight take a different approach than idy, fun, and fellow ted near Northgali r second annualfiri* Finding the perfect wav to spend nter. We will have" 10 for adults ant de at the BVCL ol and discussing//$ call Susan someone who is involved in a long-term relationship. Either way, there is one thing you must know. Girls want to feel special. Your lady is going to want you to do something out of the ordinary to get her attention and prove to her how much she means to you. Whether you arc in a new or old rela tionship, flowers are always nice. Howev er, some girls do not appreciate flowers as much as others because they do not last very long. There may also be a couple things you might want to steer clear of: First, NO Cl IOCOLATES! Chocolates arc just another reminder to your girlfriend tliat she is not the si/e she wants to be. Secondly , when it comes to lingerie, it is more of a present for you than her, so keep that in mind this Valentine’s Day. If your valentine wants a long- j term relationship, she may want something a little more permanent to remind her of you when you're not there, for instance, a teddy bear or jewelry. Or you could try' and do something really unforget table to sweep her off her feet. For example, one unforgettable Valen tine’s Day a guy I had been dating for a little over a month invited me to dinner. He had cooked me a candlelight dinner set up next to the fireplace. A tape of love songs was playing and there were roses and champagne on the table. It was extremely romantic and made me feel very special to know he had gone to so much trouble. Be cause he went out of his way for me, I have not forgotten that Valentine’s gill to this day. I found out a week later he was cheat ing on me, but that is beside the point. Valentine’s Day should not be about buying the most expensive gift or going to the most expensive restaurant. It is the opportunity to get out those feelings that seem so hard to express sometimes. Whatever you feel your valentine would love the most, whether it be giving her flowers or a card you made sitting in class, that is what you should do. Milking an effort to let your valentine know how- much you care should be your main goal this holiday. If you love her, tell her; if you like her, let her know. The more thought is put into the gift, the more special it will be. Kelly Preiser is a junior English major. I r’ m ‘-/ he tradition of Val /)ay has long been tb of the vear in which he tradition of Valentine’s the one day : year in which a person’s feelings of love (or lust) can be ex pressed for another and in recent years has been increasingly commercialized. In grade school, there was no bet ter or worse feeling than giving out your little Scooby Doo Valentine card saying, “Will you be mine?” to your crush of the week only to have her go plant a smooch on the muscular kid who took your lunch money. You were happy because you ex pressed your feelings, but crushed be cause you wasted your best Scooby card on a worthless, two-timing ... As a person gets older, Valentine’s Day gets increasingly complex as you must begin to actually choose real cards that say all sorts of sappy things like, “You are more beautiful than the most beautiful thing.” Also, about this time you must begin to get gifts for your unrequit ed love. Wonderful, sweet, thought ful gifts like boxes of chocolates which make the love of your life’s face look like like a horrible mask for Halloween. Or maybe you get that one rose because a dozen is so dang expensive and then she still chooses the muscu lar guy. Whatever you get, make sure your intentions are always pure. Then in college, girls talk to other girls and tell their best Valentine’s story. All it takes is one story about how that one girl got a catered dinner | under Albritton Tower or the one who found a diamond ring in her chocolate pudding and suddenly guys, Valentine’s Day is ruined for life. There is nothing you will ever be able to do to surpass that, barring taking your girl to a Chippendale’s show. The gifts also get a lot more expen sive, which can be a strain on a guy’s wallet. However, the point of this column is for all girls to, hope fully, realize that there is a guy in the relationship too and just because he goes to a nice restau rant and takes you to a sappy, lovesick movie does not mean the guy is getting what he needs on Valentine’s Day. If the holiday is about expressing your feelings of unrequited love for your significant other, then the girls out there need to know what a guy expects on his special day. First suggestion: Have your “spe cial” night full of “romance” and “sweetness”, but then you need to have another night in which you devote time to the guy and what a guy wants. What a guy wants on Valentine’s Day is for his woman to invite him over to her house. On the table there should be a case of beer, not Lonestar but Shiner Bock. There should be a steak dinner nearly completed and a selection of videos for his viewing pleasure which includes Jenna Jameson’s Flashpoint, any kung fu movie, and something kind of bloody like From Dusk Til Dawn. Honestly all your guy wants on Valentine’s Day is exactly what he wanted way back in grade school, to know that you appreciate his efforts and forgive him for his mistakes. A guy wants his woman to accept his feelings for her and reciprocate them. All a guy wants is exactly the same thing that a girl wants — to feel special and feel loved. The main thing most couples need to realize is that Valentine’s Day is about emo tion, not gifts and not dinners, and no one has ever said that you only had to act nice and loving one day a year. Matt McCormick is a junior agricultural development major. discussiononwh) ict Jason at 73141 :y diversity," Law® rst president of If Jht. 'K '■r ■de ny IQ's ials - ce - Sryan D. >orts Editor Radio Producer Web Master Ciraphics Editor Iraphics Editor :o Editor Editor *ncc and Technology^' 1 Texas A&M University'^ ews offices are.in 0135 E-mail: Thebattalit" 1 ' ip or endorsement W 3-2696. For classifiedy 1 . and office hours are”' s A&M student to pie*'; til subscriptions are t®., sr or $10 a month. 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