trsday • July 30,1998 The Battalion PINION 't the win, I a pastry, ■autograpl :omic strip Hope ros lown their theme sor I Downsizing the family msuoI treatment of divorce in America deprives children of security C ing Henry chopped off Anne Bo- leyn's head, because he did not have it. Then he started his own Hy because he tnted it. PgjNlpoleon got rid w Josephine with it. ut t A JMse she never II c hild. Now, Demi and ce have resorted iBecause one -LSDALE H n can never - Civil ii |]y Satisfy a man osa Parks (ually. * n It fe divorce. And ;an that' herican culture i thrust he sfeon fit to in flight ar ide divorce in its sacred canon of self- 5 torcor; rving rights. when she Today, divorce is as much a part of up herst Iterican democracy as a right to trial by ia bus in iB\nyone who is willing to pay etv he Br's fees is entitled to a divorce. This Michelle Voss assistant opinion editor , Pari e still ass democratization of divorce makes it itoo easy for couples to divide the chi- and crystal. Yet, what should be of particular con- Bor America is the toll that skyrocket- Bivorce rates are taking on young chil- ""B When young children are involved . a divorce, it not only is a devastating >enS Chfclyh but a travesty of commitment. However, America need not mourn elays of yore, of easy-bake ovens and ferns in aprons. The myth of the flaw- Bintact American family of the 1950s link, a mere nostalgic impulse which tuseless. IStill, there is the painful reality, di- prce is harming America, parbara Dafoe Whitehead's book. The Wrce Culture, assesses the impact of dis- Mving marriages upon American culture. ^ She notes many economic and psycho- ogical problems associated with divorce, Bely that “divorce has contributed to jrreater economic insecurity and poverty Wong women and children. It has also tifP a principal generator of unequal op- need igethe built a $ dng his I W'edr / Indusl 1984 h, Dtllil portunities and outcomes for children." The philosophy behind di vorce is a mere correlative of American capitalism — the individual has the power to serve his or her best self-interest. But, as White- head implores, parents cannot ignore the altruistic love of children. Children deserve stability and support; they never asked to be brought into this world. Parents took on a vol untary obligation when they decided to have a child, a voluntary obligation to give that child a secure and promising future. Divorce is a near guarantee that a child will be at a disad vantage — and not just eco nomically. Divorce is disillusioning for children who are over-exposed to dysfunction. They begin to believe that relationships only end in abandonment. Hopefully, the millions of Generation Xers will notice the devastation, despair and multi ple prescriptions brought on by divorce. After all, they were the kids who spent multiple hours in therapy dealing with the sudden upsurge in splitting families. An article entitled "Down the Aisle" from the July 20 issue of Newsweek notes that the years spanning the birth of "Generation X," 1965 to 1976, correspond precisely to a doubling of the annual American divorce rate from 2.5 to 5.0 per 1,000 population. The divorce revolution slammed into Xers with a tremendous force that left many wary of marriage and relation ships, in general. With severe apprehension, Xers ap proach the altar, hoping their life will not become a statistic. Yet, they seem to be more optimistic about their ability to han dle commitment. In a survey conducted in 1997 by the market-research firm Yankelvich Part ners, 73 percent of Xers said they would favor a return to more traditional family life. In stark contrast, only 56 percent of boomers who were asked the same ques tion in 1977 felt the same way. Since they managed to live through the nightmare of watching parents leave. Xers seem to realize the importance of having families that remain together while children are young. At least, the Newsweek article read, they appear to be willing to invest more of themselves into their marriage and children. The point is, couples with children should not be so frivolous about choos ing to divorce. This is not to say mar riages of violence, infidelity and drug abuse should continue, but these tragedies are the exception, not the norm. The norm is no-fault. No change in divorce laws or fluctua tion in tax brackets will remedy the flip pant attitudes concerning divorce. No, Americans, especially young Americans, need to redefine how the self relates to marriage and family to show this genera tion understands the word responsibility. Michelle Voss is a junior English major. Activist neglects urate details [response to Beth Russell's letter, ^%ircus Story Neglects Facts" 1 wanted to take this opportuni- to apologize on behalf of all of who are truly concerned about limal rights for the letter written Beth Russell. It was she, not The Battalion's jrandon Bollom, who failed to 'over the whole story." When Bollom arrived at Reed rena a little after 6p.m., people ready were arriving for the hree Ring Adventure," and 1 was the only protester present. In fact, I was the only protester present until almost 7 p.m., when the majority of the people going to the show already had entered the arena. I was also the only protester who bothered to get permission from the officials at Reed Arena to have a demonstration. If I hadn't had a demonstration area set up, Russell and her 20 or so fellow "activists" would have been kicked off the arena grounds before they got their first leaflet handed out. And if she expected media cov erage from The Battalion, she should have called The Battalion. Despite what she might think, every member of The Battalion staff doesn't know her personal sched ule. You have to do a little planning if you want to get something done the way you'd like it. The biggest thing Russell failed to realize, though, is the fact that the point of the story wasn't the size of the protest, but the facts that were being presented to the public. facts the average circus-goer isn't aware of, facts that Bollom present ed in his story. If all Russel is interested in is why her picture wasn't in the pa per, she's in the movement for the wrong reasons, and she might want to consider this before she writes any more commentaries that make not just her, but the movement as a whole, look stupid. Jon Ridenour Class of '00 The Battalion encourages letters to the editor. Letters must be 300 words or less and include the author's name, class and phone number. The opinion editor reserves the right to edit letters for length, style, and accuracy. Letters may be submitted in person at 013 Reed McDonald with a valid student ID. Let ters may also be mailed to: The Battalion-Mall Call 013 Reed McDonald Texas A&M University College Station. TX Campus Mail: 1,11,1 Fax: (409) 845-2647 E-mail: batt@tmix.tamu.edu Lewinsky’s immunity deal causes nothing but trouble A s any fan of that creepy television series, "The X- Files," truth is out there. But as Monica Lewinsky knows, sometimes it takes an of fer for im munity from prosecution to expose the truth. After six excruciating months of investigation, Lewin sky finally is going to tell her side of the story. Lewinsky has agreed to testify before a grand jury in re turn for immunity from prosecu tion for any crimes she might have committed in relation to Ken Starr's investigation of President Bill Clinton. Too bad the truth isn't all it's cracked up to be. The truth be hind the Clinton-Lewinsky affair will be more than Americans ever wanted to know. In Tuesday's unusually short press conference, Lewinsky's lawyers, Plato Cacheris and Jacob Stein, announced their deal with the independent prosecutor. "We, as counsel for Monica Lewinsky, have reached an agree ment today that for her full and truthful testimony, she will re ceive transactional immunity in this case," Cacheris said. The announcement signals a turning point in Starr's investiga tion — an investigation that has moved so slowly it appeared it wouldn't end until sometime in the fall of 2023. But like a roller coaster, the long, slow ascent up the biggest hill is over. The real ride is about to begin. With Lewinsky's new found cooperation, the bottom is about to drop out — from beneath the president, that is. The White House's spin over this potentially devastating devel opment has been ludicrous. White House press secretary Mike Mc- Curry said that the deal gives the president nothing to worry about, and the president is even happy Lewinsky is out of legal trouble. "He is pleased things are working out for [Lewinsky]," McCurry said. Indeed, Clinton has nothing to fear from the deal, except perhaps a little thing called impeachment. This immunity deal spinning Starr's investigation in a new direction, also is going to alter the news story surrounding the scandal. During the past six months, the Lewinsky story has been based mostly on leaks, rumors and innuen does. The facts sur rounding the story have been murky at best. But with Lewinsky's deal, Ameri cans are going to learn the real truth. That means hearing all of the lurid details of an affair that Lewinsky will testify she had with the president. Unfortunately, this also means the public can expect several months of sexually explicit news stories. As the truth comes out, newspapers will be filled with stories surrounding subjects such as oral sex, adultery and foreplay. Parents can expect to receive a lot of uncomfortable questions from children as they are exposed to endless X-rated news reports. Indeed, one wonders how many soccer moms would have voted for Clinton back in '92 if they had known it would mean having to discuss his sex life with their kids in '98. This immunity deal also means this whole affair is about to turn into a giant game of he said/she said. The Clinton administration's policy since the beginning of this scandal has been to deny and de lay. Thus far, the delaying has been quite effective. But like a deer trapped in headlights, the president is about to meet up with the Mack truck that is Moni ca Lewinsky. Lewinsky's testimo ny will incriminate the president, and all he will be able to do is say, "I didn't do it." It is going to be like the worst "Jerry Springer Show" episode ever, except this time the big-haired woman on stage will be played by Lewinsky and the redneck will be Clinton. There is such a thing as too much information. And the American public is going to learn this lesson as the Lewinsky story progresses. Stories about sex and the president are going to get old very, very quickly. Moreover, the accusations of lying that will soon fly back and forth between the Clinton and Lewinsky camps are not going to be pleasant or entertaining. Clinton is a president who has desperately searched for a legacy throughout his adminis tration. With Lewinsky's forth coming testimony, Clinton is about to get one. He is the president who will be remembered for his sex life, rather than his policies. And as a result, he has deflow ered the entire nation. John Lemons is a graduate student in electrical engineering. wi John Lemons columnist Indeed, Clinton has nothing to fear from the deal, except perhaps a little thing called impeachment.