ay • February 20, 1998 ONE STAR LOWDOWN Opinion Crimes of the Heart \amora case exhibits consequences of immature devotion, acting on revenge Mandy Cater opinion editor ITs fair in love and war. At least, that’s what the jid adage says. But, as e Zamora recently dis- red, the repercussions for of passion can have dev- |ting consequences, iane Zamora had every- ggoing for her: she was a Jng, Naval Academy mid- Iman with a promising tore. gut Zamora, like so many ]pgo astray, had one fatal That weakness has now cost her everything — I, [could have cost her her life. Zamora would find [the hard way jealousy and revenge often come at o ighacost. lamora fell prey to circumstances not unlike "iy other young women — she fell in love young she fell hard. Her then boyfriend, an Air Force lemy cadet named David Graham, was the cen- fher world. he two became engaged and seemed like a per- couple. Except, that is, for a dark secret the two hidden. iee, Graham apparently had a bit of a wandering One night, this wandering led him into the arms iiother pretty young girl, Adrianne Jones. Gra- |iand the young woman apparently had an affair nethat would have tragic circumstances, praham kept the affair secret for months, not itingto disrupt his relationship with Zamora, tually, though, his guilt must have gotten the erofhim, and he told his lover of the fling, hfortunately for all involved, though, Zamora not take the news too well, rcording to the prosecutors, this is the point re things went awry. mora’s reactions would lead to devastating con- ences for the three young people. Prosecution aments say Zamora wanted Graham to prove his RSPECTIVES love for her in an extremely violent manner. Reports say Graham went to Jones’ home, picked her up and drove her to a secluded area nearby. Un known to Jones, Zamora was hiding in the car, as well, ready to get even with what she considered an attack on her relationship. Some time that night, 16-year-old Jones was killed — beaten with a weight and later shot. If prosecutors are correct, Zamora and Graham simply cleaned up and walked away, somehow be lieving the act strengthened their ties to one another. They go off to their respective military institutions and pretend nothing happened. Then finally, Zamora cannot keep her secret any longer and she confesses to fellow cadets. This tragedy is not only saddening, but frankly, pa thetic. Here is a young woman with a promising future. She has a high school boyfriend and thinks she’s in love with him... just like almost every high school girl feels at one point or another. She’s not around one night and he wants to sow some wild oats, so he picks up a pretty, young thing, sweet talks her and sleeps with her. This is not a case where anyone should have died. Nobody should have gone to prison. One straying young guy simply deserved a swift kick out the door, and the entire situation could have been resolved. Graham was a cheater, plain and simple. Zamora, like so many people who are disappointed by their significant others, chose to ignore the possibility their relationship was not as strong as she believed. Instead of walking away and having some pride, she lashed out against someone who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Jones was not to blame here, Graham was. He was the person who claimed to be committed to Zamora, and he broke that commitment by sleeping with someone else. Jones did not weaken the strength of the bond between Graham and Zamora, Graham did. Now, a beautiful 16-year-old girl is dead. Zamora was convicted of the murder and is not eligible for pa role for 40 years. Graham goes on trial later this year. The irony in this situation is Zamora and Graham HIMlllllteiwi are each trying to sell the other down the river, pass ing the blame in hopes of getting away with murder. The lesson here is this — love can be temporal and situational, especially at such a young age. If someone cheats with somebody else, let that somebody else have them. If somebody asks you to kill someone to prove your love for them, your relationship has a few issues with trust and probably is not very stable. The bottom line is this: a lover’s quarrel is not worth killing for. It is not worth going to prison and ruining any chance at having a normal life and fami ly for. Because when the gavel goes down, and the bars are closed, you’ll be alone and that “love” is not going to count for much. Mandy Cater is a senior psychology major. oman famous for abortion case visits with change of heart John Lemons columnist ne of the most signifi cant Ameri- softhe twentieth turywill be in Wer Theater ight. This per- ’s actions created and death deci- is for millions of ericans. Yet, de- eher impor- e, this person is a politician, or a inessperson or even a religious figure, [act, the vast majority of Americans do know her real name. They only know by her pseudonym, Jane Roe. istory identifies Norma McCorvey as JeRoe, the centerpiece of the 1973 ireme Court appeal that legalized Wion in the United States. McCorvey is aging a message to Texas A&M Univer- 'Americans would do well to heed. It is iTUDENT LIFE a message that states it is never too late to have a change of heart. If Americans listen well enough, the name Roe may cease be synonymous with death to become an in spiration for change. McCorvey is one of those rare people whose legacy molds an entire nation. For tunately, she is one of those even rarer people who get a chance to remake their legacy for the better. McCorvey never got the abortion she sought through the courts. She gave that baby up for adoption, because the courts progressed slower than her pregnancy. She did, however, work in abortion clinics. That changed in August 1995, when she converted to Christianity, quit her job as marketing director at a Dallas abortion clinic and began working for Operation Rescue, a pro-life group. Today, McCorvey is touring the country speaking out against abortion and promoting her new book Won by Love. Lauren Donohue, class of ’97, is the Co ordinator of St. Mary’s Catholic Church’s Respect Life Commission, who is sponsor ing McCorvey’s talk. Donohue said Mc Corvey has a unique perspective on the abortion issue that needs to be heard. “We are all looking for people and for stories that can motivate us,” Donohue said. “Hearing the fact that Roe changed her mind and joined the pro-life movement is a very strong source of hope and motivation.” Indeed, the idea of people having a changed of heart for the better is a powerful message, especially in a place as resistant to change as A&M. Unfortunately, Aggies seem to be skeptical about the concept. Consider the recent brouhaha sur rounding Karla Faye Tucker. Tucker was executed earlier this month for murdering two people with a pick-ax in 1984. Tucker sought clemency for her death sentence on the grounds she had “found God” and was a different person. What was truly tragic about the situa tion was not the debate over the justice or injustice of the death penalty, but the reac tion of Aggies toward Tucker’s claim. On the whole, Aggies were cynical to ward Tucker’s claim of a change of heart. Many speculated Tucker was lying about her conversion or she was just trying “to play the system.” This cold cynicism is disturbing. Sure ly, a dying woman deserves the benefit of the doubt. Certainly, Tucker’s alleged making peace with God and apologizing to the families of her victims is preferable to a murderer who unrepentantly goes to the execution chamber. Although nothing can be done to bring back her murder vic tims, at least she recognized her wrong and made some small attempt to rectify it. Likewise, for all of wickedness un leashed by Roe vs. Wade, at least Jane Roe is making some attempt to rectify it. Cer tainly, this is preferable to a Jane Roe who crusades for the abortion industry. The United States would do well to em brace the idea of a change of heart. There are many issues on which it could stand to have its convictions altered. Americans’ inclination for divorce, their frivolous treatment of sex and embracement of abortion are all issues warranting changes in perspective. It is somewhat ironic Jane Roe is scheduled to speak out against abortion during the very same week this communi ty learned of plans to build an abortion clinic here. Perhaps, Bryan-College Sta tion should listen to McCorvey’s story be fore they passively accept Roe vs. Wade’s results in their own backyards. Twenty-five years after Roe vs. Wade, Jane Roe is changing her legacy. Norma McCorvey is showing Americans good can be salvaged from an evil situation if they are not too cynical to believe it. If Americans are smart, they will take it to heart. John Lemons is an electrical engineer ing graduate student. &M offers students valuable network of people, resources Len Callaway columnist nee an Aggie, always | an Aggie. Hiis expression speaks vol es about one of the ideals Dived with belonging to the as A&M family. A&M, as an itution, has come to mean nydifferent things to many erent people, but most Ag- recall their days at A&M h fondness. students at A&M, we 'e collectively made the de- onto take personal responsibility for our individ- destinies and stand firm in our resolve to im- ive ourselves and our University. In keeping with the spirit of improving our beloved ool, Aggies often call attention to perceived or ap- ent shortcomings and areas or policies in need of Movement or reevaluation. As students, it is our re- msibility to take an active interest in A&M while tking to improve our environment, however, the of critical commentary is often rendered from an erently negative and downtrodden perspective, is, at times, causes the multit ude of positive A&M at- mtes to be lost or temporarily forgotten in a haze of 'Otional rhetoric. Constmctive criticism followed by a positive alter- tive is a healthy and necessary action in order for organization or individual to improve and excel. On the other hand, criticism simply for the sake of criticizing can only serve to demoralize the constant quest for improvement. There is after all, a difference between a critique and criticism. Sometimes we all need to be reminded of the pos itive qualities A&M has to offer so we may remember why we critique in the First place. One would assume because our University is a cut above the rest, we criticize to ensure it stays that way. The moment students were given the opportunity to become Aggies they were also given an extraordi nary opportunity to secure and make use of an abun dance of resources and people in hopes of achieve ment and accomplishment to come only through diligence and dedication to their personal cause. A&M is one of the largest universities in the nation in land mass, touting some 5,200 acres as a main campus. A&M also boasts a diverse student body of 45,000-plus, making it one of the largest universities in enrollment as well. Our diverse student body al lows for the opportunity to learn and benefit from the ideals and experiences of other people. Students at A&M also have an immense system of specialized student organizations from which to choose in order to further their position and potential for tremendous success after graduation. People such as Vice President of Student Affairs J. Malon Southerland and MSC Director Jim Reynolds are prime examples of resources students should use for their insight and personal attention. Each year these men spend extraordinary amounts of time focusing on ways to bring students and distin guished alumni together through events like the MBA/Law Symposium and the Former Students Leadership Conference. These events focus on personal marketing, net working and the opportunity to benefit from the expe riences of those who have gone before us. The alumni who take the time to participate are not compensated in any way other than the satisfaction they get from helping young people succeed. A&M is located in one of the last true “college towns”, and the list of benefits and possible relation ships is simply too great to adequately discuss. A&M has an excellent athletic program which helps to invite and promote spirit and camar aderie in the student body, while encouraging student athletes in their various endeavors. A&M boasts an accomplished and attentive faculty who more often than not will do anything in their pow er to help students succeed in the classroom. Perhaps the single greatest benefit or opportunity at A&M lies in the simple ideals upon which A&M’s phi losophy is based. Words like “honor,” “integrity,” “dedi cation” and “ethic” rest on the cornerstone upon which the A&M system has been built. Students have the opportunity to experience a unique sense of organization and loyalty through our collective tendency toward friendliness and our dedi cation to one another. A&M has been nurtured by generous alumni over the years, and as future alumni, it becomes incum bent upon today’s Aggies to continue the pattern of generosity and interest displayed by so many of our predecessors. Due to the Former Students Associa tion, alumni interest and the sense of “Aggie Family”, A&M is able to have one of the largest annual private endowments of any public university. The dedication, hands on interest and guidance of alumni set the precedent long ago that Aggies have the ability and responsibility to contribute to and su pervise A&M’s growth and academic prowess. The A&M experience, by nature, demands a proactive approach to education from its students. This cannot be overstated. Each student surely has ideas and suggestions re garding changes that could vastly improve an already superior University. The important facts to keep in mind, however, are the positive aspects of A&M far out weigh any negative ones, and in order for positive change to continue, students must engage A&M’s lead ers with constructive criticism and positive alternatives in hopes of proliferating a healthy and earnest dialogue. As President of Former Students Association Dr. Fred Palmer said, “As alumni our education has served us well, but the A&M experience overall has served us exceptionally well. Students have a tremendous legacy to fulfill and the resources are in place to all but guarantee success.” The greatest resource available to Aggies is simply die innumerable resources to be found in one anoth er. Through positivity and thoughtfulness A&M’s fac ulty, students and alumni can work together to achieve all of our respective and collective goals. Len Callaway is a junior journalism major.