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Harris sees the simi larity between married couples and room mates in the “ongoing relationship.” “There will be conflict, as in any relationship, and conflicts need to be ad dressed,” Harris said. A self-absorbed soci ety is clouded with the inability to conform. Everyone can be a cen tral vertebrae in society’s self-serving backbone. A contributing factor to this mendacity is the spoiling of chil dren with their with own room. In the real world, they are ne glected mentally and physically by constraints on personal habits. It is almost necessary for roommates to silently sustain the preferences of each other while quietly plotting the death of their counterpart who most likely feels the same way. A basic carnal instinct to take care of ourselves first is deep- rooted in the idea of natural se lection and "survival of the fittest”. Marriage and roommates disrupt the gravitational tide of this idea; even though we are aware of this, we act disturbingly surprised, convinced we can be the forever selfless beings only found in story tales. So whether an overly conventional roommate reminds his or her partner to say hello when meeting Dante him self in a doomed af terlife or a spouse practices the same dogma, the concept of dealing with it prevails when faced with conflict. The Student Con flict Resolution Ser vices wants to share peaceful conflict resolution tactics that could possibly save the utter downfall of any relationship: Val ue the opinions of others, openly communicate your feelings, share similar ideals and inter ests, be open minded to different notions, listen with an sincere mind and heart, grasp the con cepts presented, consider possi ble consequences, create numer ous alternatives, propose some rational solutions, and compro mise impartial agreements. This may seem like a lot to swallow, but spouses and room mates alike need something on which to base their relationship decisions. Until society makes an effort to expand, the job can only be seen by some as taxing and time-consuming, regardless of the increase in maturity to be gained. F reedom. It is a Fourth of July kind of word, a red white and blue word, a fireworks word. A word Americans think de fines the USA. But what do people from other cultures think of life in America and what we call freedom? What do they think of Americans? Some people say that for eigners think Americans are big, stupid oafs. On the other hand, I hear some say they idolize our culture and all of it’s glittering decadence. As America begins another four years under the leadership of a presi dent whose, as Time magazine es sayist Lance Morrow said “theology is politics”, it is important to assess our nation honestly and determine our role in the 21st century Are we a beacon on a hill for all the world to see as Jonathan Edwards and his contemporaries claimed? Do we need to return to the religion of the founding fathers? Are we about to drown in a cesspool of materialism? Should we put on the rose colored glasses of optimism? International students are in a great position to enlighten the A&M community about what oth er cultures think. They know both the misconceptions and the truths of life in America and can give a clear picture of what other soci eties think of America. Enis Robbana, a sophomore Pe troleum Engineering major from Tunisia said “Most youths in Tunisia think it’s McDonald’s and Basketball. .. they have a lot of stuff here you Columnist Courtney Phillips Junior Psychology major wouldn’t see in Europe.” He also said that “It is much more superficial, people don’t want to get involved in other people’s problems, although he did add that “In Texas people are much more polite and friendly.” Back home, Enis’ friends think he is lucky to get to study in Ameri ca, but most Tunisians don’t like our politics and think the U.S. is always too quick to rush in and try to fix the world’s problems and toot their own horn as a superpower. Lizbeth Lan- do, a BUSINESS ANALYSIS major from Mexico City, said “Some Ameri can people believe the U.S. is every thing and don’t see beyond their own country” and “families are not very tight” as they are in Mexico. It seems that there is a dichoto my here. A half love and half hate, a reluctant lust for American things and a distrust of our political cul ture and morality. It is a dichotomy I saw personified when I traveled to Spain this past summer. Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas were in the country and in the news every night. The media was all over them wanting to know exactly what they were doing, wanting to peek inside their glamorous lives. Finally, when the cameras got a little too close for Melanie, she responded with a most endearing obscene ges ture. What a picture of America. A million dollar smile (buy our stuff) and an attitude so beautifully exem plified by Griffith’s third finger (but don’t get in our way). As Americans, we enjoy some of the highest standards of living in the world, yet we have low standards for living. Not to say the standards are so much higher in other countries, they often appear to be lower than ours, until you realize immorality here seethes beneath a distinctly Ameri can prudery. Americans themselves seem to have a love/hate relationship with their countiy. Some would die for it. Some would do anything to escape it’s stifling atmosphere. We have seen different groups struggle over the years. Some would march for free dom, support the troops, fly the flag, claiming the inherent virtue of America. Others vyould run away and write poetry in French cafes, liv ing the unconsciously snobbish ex patriate life. (Note: my poetry saw hi de improvement in Spain) Perhaps life is a movable feast as Ernest Hemingway wrote. The whole of it lies within the soul, and it can be carried with us anywhere. We can feast on it or starve our selves, regar dless of where we are or where our citizenship lies. This gives a whole new meaning to die word freedom. Viewed in this fight, free dom is no longer about laws, or rights, orAmerica the beautiful. So-called freedom in America often wears chains of greed and selfishness. We are clearly not a beacon on a hill anymore (if we ever were), and re turning to anyone’s religion for the sake of returning won’t do us any good. We need to focus on individual people doing what’s right as we collec tively enter the 21st century, whether that’s something the founding fathers did, or something we’ve never done before. We’ve all got a movable feast inside to carry with us wherever we go. What’s in your - picnic basket? 'Right to carry' law opens door to criminals T he problem with gun control in the United States is not the issue of who gets to own them, but where they should be able to carry them. Although handguns may be an ef fective tool to protect an individual’s home, home is where guns should stay unless they are being used at secluded firing ranges. Ronald Reagan once said, “As long as there are guns, the individual that wants a gun for a crime is going to have one and going to get it.” Opponents of gun-control laws claim although laws have become more strict over the past three decades, more criminals have guns. What they fail to mention is handguns have be come the weapons of choice for more criminals. United States Representative Cliff Stearns of Florida is sponsoring a bill, if passed, to give Amer icans the right to carry handguns with them re gardless of their state laws. The Second Amendment gives Americans the right to keep and bear arms and to form a militia as a safeguard against tyranny from the U.S. Government or Military. As Thomas Jeffer son and other framers of the Constitution were concerned about this, today, more than 220 years later, it's inconceivable to be distressed about the possible takeover of the United States by its own government. If the National Rifle Association had its way, Columnist Brandon Hausenfluck Senior Journalism major every American with a somewhat clear criminal record would carry a con cealed handgun. The NRA claims America would be much safer if citi zens were able to defend themselves from criminal attacks. In a Beaumont Enterprise article, Daniel Polsby of The Northwestern University School of Law and Dennis Brennen of Harper College, cited the Warren vs. District of Columbia case which explains a situation where a handgun would be beneficial. Three female rape victims sued the District, because they were not protect ed by police nor did they have the ability to protect themselves. Two of the victims were upstairs at home when they heard their roommate being attacked down stairs. About an hour after calling the police the first time, the screaming stopped. The girls up stairs assumed the police had arrived. In reality, the police had not shown up and the other room mate had been beaten unconscious. The two girls went downstairs and found the assailants had not left. This was just the beginning. “For the next 14 hours the women were raped, robbed, beaten, forced to commit sexual acts upon each other, and made to submit to sexual demands,” a court official said. The police never arrived because of poor com munication with the dispatcher. This is an extreme example of what kind of crime Americans are subject to. In this case, a gun would have saved the girls a lifetime of horrible pain. Closer to home, imagine what would have hap pened after the 1995 U.T. vs. A&M football game when the Corps brawled with Texas fans after they beat us then set foot on our precious Kyle Field. If an angry Aggie had brandished a gun and pulled the trigger, a chain reaction of gunfire would have empted. Many innocent bystanders could have been hurt or killed. Authorities have a hard enough time keeping the streets safe. Arming every John Doe out there would be detrimental to America’s safety. Law abiding citizens do have the right to have handguns, but they should not have the right to tote them wherever they go. Most public establish ments do not allow concealed weapons on their premises. They, like most people, do not feel com fortable knowing everyone is carrying a handgun. Guns are a part of many Americans’ lives. Per sonally, I enjoy shooting skeet, dove hunting, quail hunting, and have even killed a few deer. I have a shotgun, a rifle, and a 4 wheel-drive. However, I don’t consider myself a country boy, and I can sur vive without carrying a handgun to class. It is ludicrous to say less crimes will be committed if more people are given the right to carry a handgun. Americans should have every right to be safe. But putting more handguns on the streets will kill more people than it will save. Mail Racist students fail to qualify as Aggies In response to Kevin Barrios’ Feb. 4 th letter. I agree with that the circum stances were uncalled for and can be quite upsetting, but for anyone to declare themselves no longer an Aggie because of what happened is selling themselves short. There are a lot of people around College Station that don’t attend the University. If they were A&M students, that doesn’t necessarily declare them as Aggies. Part of being an Aggie is partic ipating with enthusiasm at yell practice, sporting events, Bonfire, and promoting your school pride and image. These people obviously were not doing so. Unfortunately, these type of im mature bigots are everywhere, not just in College Station. I, too, am a minority and en joyed four great years at A&M. So don’t throw away your school spirit, “aggie ring”, and all the benefits of being an Aggie be cause of a few people who aren’t even worth it. Jason Morawski Class of’95 Smokers forfeit all special treatment In response to John Lemons’ Feb. 5 column titled, “Smokers unfairly punished by taxation.” What would these poor college students do with a tax increase on their drug of choice? Quit school and live on the streets. I don’t think I need to point out there is a problem here. If some one actually goes to these levels, as Lemons claims they will, some thing needs to be done about their problem, not society’s. If anything, he proves that smoking is a deadly habit that needs to be eradicated everywhere. You know, I think we should keep with our bullying and oppres sion as much as we please. We need stricter laws and more expen sive cigarettes. Little areas set aside for smokers so they won’t even be in our path. Cigarettes should be at least $5 a pack and at least $30 a carton. Sure, we’ll put in an ash tray, but you’ll have to walk to West campus to use it. Maybe one placed by the Bush Library when it opens. And butt littering will be punishable by a fine (which no smoker can afford). So if you want to smoke, you’ll make the walk. If smokers don’t decide it’s not worth the trouble to smoke, that’s one life saved. On the other hand, if they end up on the streets, that’s their problem, not mine. Lisa Peterson Class of ’00 \