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I ael Kraft Bryan •s'Classes j Taught in C06LISH STUDV >05 or of 'and den’ 30 ay night Comply >0 Box Offic* 5-1515 enter nittee 3 working isist you to Opinion Tuesday, September 21,1993 The Battalion Editorial Board CHRIS WHITLEY, editor in chief JULI PHILLIPS, managing editor MARK EVANS, city editor ^ DAVE THOMAS, night news editor ANAS BEN-MUSA, Aggielife editor BELINDA BLANCARTE, night news editor MICHAEL PLUMER, sports editor MACK HARRISON, opinion editor WILLIAM HARRISON, sports editor KYLE BURNETT, photo editor EDITORIAL NCAA ruling A&M must accept consequences The NCAA announced on Sept. 10 that five Texas A&M University football players would be suspended from play for accepting payment from a 12th Man Foundation booster for work not performed. These suspensions vary commensu rate with each individual's dif fering levels of knowledge, par ticipation and moneys received. During the course of the NCAA investigation, each ath lete indicated that little or no work had been performed. Some were paid, for instance, while employed full-time else where. Another was paid while in College Station partic- ipating in football practice. This investigation and the resulting punishment followed on the heels of an in-house in- vestigation initiated by the University in January. Texas A&M was correct in acting swiftly and decisively on this issue. However, A&M's rec ommendations for punishment would prove later to be insuffi cient in the eyes of NCAA En forcement and Eligibility rep resentatives. This whole matter is an em barrassment to Texas A&M University. Even now, after a legacy of Jackie Sherrill and Kermit Davis, it seems that ours is an athletic program unable to function, either on an institu tional or individual level, ac cording to NCAA regulations. Therefore, it is disgraceful that Interim President Dr. E. Dean Gage is "angered and disappointed about the actions taken by the NCAA ..." These players knowingly and willful ly broke the rules. How then in good faith can Texas A&M, a university purportedly com mitted to integrity and compli ance, question the NCAA? As with anything, if a wrong or injustice is commit ted, one must expect to answer to a higher authority. Likewise, Texas A&M must expect to an swer to the NCAA for these wrongs. Gage, saying that "we un derwent a vigorous ... self-ex amination," went on to call A&M's findings and recom mendations "appropriate." Texas A&M University, however, is not its own judge and jury. The NCAA is. We must recognize this fact and accept the consequences. Acquaintance rape: The Battalion Page 11 Always look on the bright side of life People must learn to deal with what they can't change // A Terrible Z\ Horrible JL jLNo Good Very Bad Day" is one of those phenomenal children's books that is written for kids, but is really aimed at adults. I am not by any means trying to mini mize the perils of sand box fights and Cracker Jack boxes without prizes. But really, let's face it, most college students would kill for the opportunity to worry about how to get out of taking a bath as opposed to ... just looking at a syllabus. The problem is not that the crises that plague our lives now are any more traumatic than when we were five; the problem is that along the way somehow, we inherited a ghastly and evil mental characteristic — an attention span. Seriously, look at children. At one mo ment they are prepared to end their lives over the demise of a 6-inch plastic turtle stat ue and the next moment they have forgotten that the world frowned on the life of their beloved possession. Now, take an adult who breaks her mani cured fingernail or witnesses his favorite football team get shamelessly beaten, and we are looking at a two week mourning period. As adults we have spent time and energy at perfecting many skills in our lives, and some how, we all ended up experts at milking our bad days for all they are worth. Well, I was having one of those "terrible horrible no good very bad days" myself this summer. I mean this was a record-breaking bad day. I had ants in my britches and smoke spewing out of every hole in my head. Upon reflection, I am not exactly certain what I was so upset about. 1 was certain however, that my world was crumbling around me, and I was absolutely, thoroughly and deservedly miserable. In the midst of contemplating ways to seek retribution on every living organism daring to inhabit the earth that day, 1 noticed a rather plain navy blue Accord drive past me. With an air of nonchalant innocence, neatly attached to the left rear bumper was a simple black and white bumper sticker. It read "Good Happens." It was like a slap in the face. At that mo ment I realized how incredibly easy it is to be negative. Most people have seen the more popular and cynical version of the "Good Happens" bumper sticker. I guess it was the rarity of this positive outlook that made an impression on me. Honestly, I was embar rassed for myself. I was embarrassed that I had allowed myself to fall helplessly into the hypnotic effects of negativeness. l am not sharing this experience of self revelation in the hopes of producing a cam pus full of cheery college students who dot their i's with hearts and belong to the smile Gestapo. But, I learned that being negative is a trap. It does nothing but magnify and post pone the problem. Being negative is the truest basic instinct that most people ever actually act on. It all goes back to the first time we were ever de nied a cookie. In an eerie and perpetuating twist of fate, we all learned the power of whining, crying and all-out temper tantrums. And by golly, the fact that it worked once was reason enough to file it away deep in our subconscious as the best way to deal with any of the little booby traps life sets in our path. We all need to come to grips with one ba sic and unchanging truth — life is not fair. It never has been, and it never will be. And every time life delivers a personal reminder of the unfairness doctrine, we are faced with an option. We can scream, yell and go into mourning, or we can shut up and get on with our lives. If there were one productive way to regress in adult development, it would be to loose that nasty appendage called an atten tion span. It's like dealing with zits. If you just acknowledge the fact that they are there and then leave them alone, it looks a lot bet ter than when you spend hours in front of the mirror hashing it out with unmovable mountains. With all our incredible skills and intellec tual ability, there are many things that exist outside the realm of human control. The only thing that preserves our sovereignty of self is the ability to control our reactions. But when we allow the negative reaction impulse free reign over our lives, it is so easy to miss any good in the world — even when it is driving right past you. Jenny Magee is a sophomore journalism majot JENNY MAGEE Columnist ■ TH£ ^tat, „ /*= You Act fs/CMJ you cAro take. AP’VArJTAC.B- <=>/= exJA. ^f^esciAU CaBAP" f : =d^f0P.AU§Jf ParTitJC. THE- r. .. . Cl... Editorials appearing in The Battalion reflect the views of the editorial board. They do not necessarily reflect the opinions of other Battalion staff members, the Texas A&M student body, regents, administration, faculty or staff. Columns, guest columns and letters express the opinions of the authors. The Battalion encourages letters to the editor and will print as many as space allows; Letters must be 300 words or less and include the author's name, class, and phone number. We reserve the right to edit letters and guest columns for length, style, and accuracy. Contact the opinion editor for i n format ion on submi tt i ng guest columns. ■ Address letters to; The Battalion - Mail Call 013 Reed McDonald Mail stop lilt Texas A&M University College Station, XX 77-843 Crossing the line between 'yes 7 and "no 7 E verything seemed per fect for Jen nifer. It was her first semester away at college. She had joined a few groups that inter ested her. She had met a lot of friends and was going to parties where the guys were interest ing and the beer Was tree. One guy seemed particular ly interested in Jen nifer. David was a good looking guy. He had talked to Jennifer at one of the par ties. Jennifer had even told one of her friends about him. "He's tall and strong," she said. "He's got these massive shoulders. And he's got the cutest smile. I swear, if I don't iisshim tonight. I'll go crazy." That night at the party David paid dose attention to Jennifer. And she loved it He held her hand like he had before, and he brought her beer. And more beer. And more beer. "He looked cuter every time," she said. "I was dying to kiss him." Finally, she did kiss him. It was get ting late, and everyone was wandering off into their corners of the house. David suggested that they too find a private place to talk. Jennifer liked the sound of it and walked with David to his car. David's room was cold and dark so it felt good when he came to sit next to her. He sat awfully close. And then he kissed her. Just like she had hoped. And then he grabbed her. Jennifer wasn't sure what she should do. Maybe it was an accident, she thought. Maybe he didn't mean to do that. She had jumped a bit when he did it, but she tried to shrug it off. She acted as if nothing had happened. And then he did it again. Maybe that's what they do in college, she thought. But she knew she wasn't comfortable with it. Jennifer pulled away a bit. David pushed closer. "What's wrong?" he asked. "Nothing," she said. "I'm getting tired." David smiled. He kissed her again. ROBERT VASQUEZ Columnist She tried to enjoy it. But it wasn't the same. Jennifer pulled away and told David that she wanted to go home. "What's wrong?" David asked. "Doesn't that feel good?" He gently rubbed her back and held her firmly in place when she tried to move. David said they should lie down, rest a There had been no scream ing. She hadn't fought him. She hadn't tried to get away. She had been very quiet and didn't stop his advances. Who would possibly call that "rape"? little before driving her home. She was tired. He was driving. He was insisting. Why not? David lay down first. And then she, on the other side of the bed. He scooted up next to her. And then he kissed her. It was only a kiss. Jennifer was tired. His kisses felt good. But this isn't right, she thought. Some thing's wrong. "David ... stop," she said. Her voice was so quiet, so soft. David didn't stop. He gradually removed all her clothing. And he massaged her. And he kissed her. And then he raped her. There had been no screaming. She hadn't fought him. She hadn't tried to get away. She had been very quiet and didn't stop his advances. Who would possibly call that "rape"? Jennifer would. And she did. She wasn't sure how it happened. She just knew that she didn't want to have sex with David. She had told him "no." And he took it anyway. Jennifer is not one isolated case, but a representative of thousands of women who have been raped by someone they thought they knew. One study found that one out of every five college students in the United States has been a victim of sexual assault. Dennis Reardon, a coordinator in the Department of Student Affairs, said fe male freshmen are the most likely to be come victims of acquaintance rape. Between the first day of school and Thanksgiving, incoming students are es pecially susceptible to new influences. This freedom to test the limits of excess, mixed with the driving desire to fit in with the new crowd, often leads students to make crucial first-time decisions at a point when their judgment has been dis carded with reckless abandon. The conse quences are sobering. Texas A&M has organized a program to help rape victims. Whether it be ac quaintance rape, attempted rape, or any other type of sexual assault, counselors at the Center for Drug Prevention and Edu cation in the Beutel Health Center are there to help. The service is free and completely confidential. If you would like to talk with someone or simply have a question, call 845-0280. In the dark hours of morning, under the hazed influence of alcohol, the defin ing lines between right and wrong — be tween "yes" and "no" — blur all too' quickly. The rude awakening comes when day light separates gray affairs into black and white. And the players find themselves on the wrong side of the line. Robert Vasquez is a senior journalism major It's A&M, not NFL I could care less about who wins the National Football Championship or who is the starting quarterback. Nor do I care what the AP voters think. The point is that Texas A&M has a damn good football team that has not lost a season game since Tulsa ('91). Screw all you wannabes bitching about one season loss in three years. You prob ably weren't even at the game — not to mention down on the field in front of wall-to-wall Oklahoma fans. Remember, this is not the NFL — the athletes are here to go to school. Dan Setters Class of'94 MAPS not necessary We students continually wonder why our fees keep rising annually. An exam ple of the problem can be observed with the article in Thursday's Battalion, "Stu dent Government to implement MAPS". What our student government plans to do is venture into the local high schools and "inform" them about different cul tures. Whether this knowledge is good or bad is not the issue. The problem: money collected from our tuition and fees is fun- neled away from the people who front it. What's next, a MAPS fee added to our bill? Let's stop this before the program gets out of hand. David W. Britt Graduate Student Freshmen not at fault for decline of Howdy In response to Cecil Bleiker's sugges tion that the Class of '97 is unaware of the traditions such as Howdy, we would like to speak up for all the freshmen who do uphold this fine Aggie tradition. We can only wonder how Mr. Bleiker came to the conclusion that the Class of '97 was the cause of this decline in friendliness on the A&M campus. We were not aware that a survey was taken to establish that the Class of '97 does not say howdy. As a freshman, I brought back from Fish Camp all of the pride, spirit and tra ditions I learned from our counselors, speakers and fellow freshmen. Since classes have started, I too have been amazed at the blank looks I receive when I greet someone with a howdy. But I have been more amazed that it is the upperclassmen not returning my greeting just as much as "fish." After many visits to the A&M campus last year, I could not wait to be a part of A&M and carry on its traditions. Imag ine my disappointment upon my arrival here this year that people cannot return a simple howdy. I understand and share in your disap pointment at the declining friendliness on campus, but it is unfair of you to label the Class of '97 as the cause. Attty Kohler Class of '97 Accompanied by 13 signatures