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Monday, September 9, 1985/The Battalion/Page 7 What’s up Monday TEXAS STUDENT EDUCATION ASSOCIATION: has an informational meeting for education majors and interested students at 8:30 pan. m 30 i Rudder Tower. THE LAND DEVELOPMENT CLUB: will meet at 7 p.m. in 206 MSC 1'he meeting is opett to everyone interested in the cities of tomorrow. TAMUJAZZ BAND: will rehearse at 7:30 p.m. in the Com mons West Piano Room. Please bring instruments. Any in terested persons welcome. BETA ALPHA PSI: will hold an introductory meeting for pledges at 7 p.m. See the Beta Alpha Psi bulletin board for location. IEEE-EMBS: (Engineering in Medicine Sc Biology) has its first meeting at / p.m. in 103 Zachry Engineering Center. Everyone welcome. ALPHA PHI OMEGA: the national co-ed service fraternity w ill have rush parties Sept. 17 ami IS, TEXAS A&M WATER POLO CLUB: will practice at 6:30 p.m. at the outdoor pool. Anyone who is interested is wel come. PHI THETA KAPPA ALUMNI ASSOCIATION: will meet at 7:30 p.m. in 305 Rudder Tower. AH students that have been members are encouraged to attend. STUDENT Y ASSOCIATION: Freshman Cabinet Aide Ap plications are now available in Student Activities Office, 2nd floor Pavilion. Deadline is Sept. 13. STUDENT GOVERNMENT: Freshman Aide applications are available iu 221 Pavilion. They should be returned be fore Sept. 13 at 5 p.m. to the Student Government Office. WILEY LECTURE SERIES: Applications are available in 216 MSC. Deadline is Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. DATE RAPE: A program on date rape will be held by the Dept, of Student Affairs at 7 p.m. in 607 Rudder Tower. TEXAS A&M EMERGENCY CARE TEAM: has its first meeting for prospective members at 7 p.m. in the A.P. Beutei Health Center Cafeteria. DIAMOND DARLINGS: Anninations aie available in the Athletic Business Office, l \3 G. Rollie White Coliseum and must be returned by Tuesday at 5 p.m. MSC. HOSPITALITY: Membership applications are available in 216 MSC ACM-IEEE/CS: is having a membership drive today, l uesday and Wednesday from 9 a.in. to 2 p.m. in the Zaehry Engi neering Center lobby. Tuesday MT. PLEASANT HOMETOWN CLUB: will meet at 7 p.m. in 4 ID Rudder Tower. PANAMANIAN STUDENT ASSOCIATION: will meet at 8:30 p.m. in 404 Rudder Tower. TAMU FLYING CLUB: will have a meeting for new mem bers at 7:30 p.m. in the Airport Clubhouse. ALVIN HOMETOWN CLUB: will meet at 7 p.m. in 404 Rudder. ON CAMPUS CATHOLICS: will hold a short discussion on Myth vs. Reality: Misconceptions about the Catholic Faith at 9:30 p.m. at All Faiths Chapel. MEXICAN AMERICAN ENGINEERING SOCIETY: will meet at 7 p.m. in 308 Rudder. FARMHOUSE FRATERNITY: will have an ice cream mixer for rushees and members at 7 p.m. in Kleberg Ctr. (faculty lounge). AMERICAN SOCIETY OF SAFETY ENGINEERS: will meet at 7 p.m. in Zaehry Rm. 342. SAILING TEAM: will meet at 7 p.m. in 109 Military Science Bldg, to plan the A&M regatta and to discuss the fall sched ule." SKEET & TRAP CLUB: will meet at 7 p.m. in 110 Military Sciences Building. H1LLEL STUDENT CLUB: will hold an ice cream bash (piz/a, volleyball) from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. TAMU SCUBA CLUB: will have orientation & scuba lessons at 7 p.m. in 504 Rudder. All certified and soon-to-be certi fied divers welcome. TAMU ROADRUNNERS CLUB: will meet in 407 A-B Rud- l§8 der. TAMU HORSEMENS ASSOC.: will meet in 115 Kleberg at 7 p.m. BETA ALPHA PSI: will have an introductory meeting for pledges at 7 p.m. Check Beta Alpha Pm bulletin board for location. TEXAS A&M COLLEGIATE FFA: has an ice cream social at 6:30 in 101 Senates Hall and a meeting at 7:30 in 208 Sedates Hall. ETA KAPPA NU ELECTRICAL ENGINEERING HONOR SOCIETY: will meet at 7 p.m. in 119B Zaehry. PHI ETA SIGMA: will meet at 7 p.m. in 510 Rudder. Items for What's Up should be submitted to The Battalion, 216 Reed McDonald, no less than three days prior to de sired publication date. ■ kzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz American Express 693-5661 ra Fisherman's r We Accept ^ (CXJ wy *rr.-wrs^ r r-r t P©rson91 Checks J :an C&Z 7. _ H v y 1 Cove WEDNESDAY 3-8:30 ^FISHERMAN’S DREAM 4 s MONDAY 3-8:30 JAMBOREE NIGHT Boiled Shrimp Dinner Fried Shrimp Dinner Fried Frogleg Dinner Buy One Get One Free Boiled Shrimp YourChoise Fried Froglegs <£"795 Fried Fish Filets 'P * All You Can Eat ► rj 606 Tarrow College Station TUESDAY 3-8:30 CAJUN S DELIGHT Fried Shrimp $795 Fried Oysters ^ * All You Can Eat Rape Women are many times unaware they're victims Fried Catfish All You Can Eat $6* - s SATURDAY 11-4 SHRIMPERS’ WISH Your Choice All You Can Eat Fried Froglegs ^%7^^ Fried Oysters 'r ■ ^ By TAMARA BELL Stair Writer Amy was introduced to Roger at a friend’s party. When her ride had to leave, Roger volunteered to take her home. Amy invited him in, hoping he would ask her out. But instead she was pushed to the couch and as saulted. Amy was a victim of ac quaintance rape. “Acquaintance or date rape is de fined as forced intercourse by some one the victim knows, without her consent,” says Jan Winniford, assis tant director of Student Affairs. “It is something which has just grown up to be an issue because of the sig nificant number of females who are reporting date rape.” In a 1983-84 survey of 703 A&M undergraduates by Dr. Charlene Muehlenhard, assistant professor of psychology at Texas A&M, and Mel- aney Linton, a psychology under graduate, 16.6 percent of the women polled reported having had sexual intercourse against their wishes while on dates. About 8.6 percent of men polled said they have forced a date to submit to inter course. In other surveys taken on college campuses, only a small percentage of women asked if they have been raped say yes, Winniford said. But when the question is rephrased to ask if a woman has been involved in sexual intercourse without her con sent, the percentage jumps to 20%, she said. “Women aren’t defining this situ ation as rape because they feel if you know the person you’re going out with, then it’s not the social norm to be assertive and aggressive,’’Winni ford said. “Women are taught to be passive, and it’s this passiveness that makes it difficult for a woman to fight back in this particular situation. “Another reason most women have trouble defining this as a rape is because when a woman thinks of rape, she thinks of a stranger,attack ing in a dark area. But in 50 percent of rapes, the victim knows the ra pist.” Although any woman can be a vic tim of acquaintance rape, most vic tims on college campuses are fresh men, Winniford said. “Freshmen are. more vulnerable than upperclassmen,” she said. “They want to be accepted, so they bend to pressure and the need to please their dates.” Acquaintance rape usually occurs on the second or third date, Winni ford said, because on the first date the woman is less likely to invite the man into her apartment. It usually happens on weekends and lasts longer than stranger rape, she said. The rapist is less likely to use lethal weapons than verbal threats and physical strength, she said. Guilt is a common feeling among victims of acquaintance rape, said Dr. Kerry Hope, counseling psychol ogist and associate director of Stu dent Counseling Services. It shakes the person’s confidence in herself and she begins to question if she can trust someone again, she said. “First the victim experiences ei ther no emotion or hysteria,” Hope said. “Eventually she pulls her life together from the outside, but the level of functioning is below the pre rape. During this time either her grades go down or her relationships become crummy. She denies the im pact the rape had on her. At some point she’ll nit bottom. “The victim doesn’t relax, sleep or eat. She thinks it’s stupid when she can’t make a B in a class, because she’s over the rape. But because it’s a traumatic experience, it could take a couple of months to forever to re cover from it.” Individual counseling is recom mended, Hope said, to Help the vic tim overcome feelings of shame, guilt and depression. A survivors’ group which meets weekly at the counseling service allows a victim to share her doubts with women who have had similar experiences. Acquaintance rape occurs when a woman’s defenses are down and she’s unprepared to handle the at tacker, Winniford said. A good form of prevention is to avoid problem sit uations: • If you meet someone at a party or bar, don’t accept a ride home un til you know him better. • Drink alcohol responsibly. • Be aware of how you are com ing across to your date. If you say no, mean no. Avoid playing games. • Watch the nonverbal messages in your posture, clothes and eye-con tact. “Don’t try to talk or plead your way out of tnis situation,” Winniford said. "If you sense something is going to happen, be assertive and firm in your answer. Don’t be afraid to hurt feelings. A self-assured and forthright response is the best form of prevention.” Rape program set By TAMARA BELL Stair Writer In order to heighten Texas A&M students’ awareness with “acquain tance rape” and “date rape” on col lege campuses, the Department of Student Affairs is sponsoring a pro gram Monday at 7 p.m. in 607 Rud der Tower. The program begins with a defi nition of date rape and why the issue has become a problem on many cam puses across the country said Jan Winniford, assistant director of Stu dent Affairs. “The main problem with this issue is that it goes unreported,” Winni ford said. “It’s the lack of knowledge on victims’ part. Many female stu dents assume they contribute or cause the assault. The action is against their will, yet they feel re sponsible. “The victim doesn’t think of it as rape or sexual assault. The program is designed to inform the student that sexual intercourse without con sent is rape.” The video tape “It Still Hurts,” which shows the re-enactment of a date rape, explores the situation and the psychological trauma which the student experiences in the af termath, Winniford said. The victim’s psychological prob lems and her interaction in future dating situations will be discussed by Dr. Kerry Hope, a counseling psy chiatrist and associate director of the Student Counseling Service. “We want the female students to realize that if they don’t want a sex ual relationship it’s their right to re fuse,” she said. “And they should feel comfortable with their decision, not guilty.” Although the subject matter is considered a women’s issue, men can benefit from the program, Winni ford said. “There’s a misconception in our society,” she said, “that a woman ex pects to be forced — that a ‘no’ means ‘yes.’ The program explains that, on the contrary, that idea isn’t true. 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