LIBRARY CAMPUS 10 COPIES B Bop Baylor, 95-78, Head For Ozarks Cbe Battalion Volume 61 COLLEGE STATION, TEXAS WEDNESDAY, MARCH 2, 1966 Number 275 grab bag By Glenn Dromgoole Sam Selkow chose his words carefully, deliberately. “If I really had to put my finger on the difficulty we’re having on college and univer sity campuses,” the Eeace Corps representative said, “I would have to point out at least three areas. “1. Not enough students — here and elsewhere — have sufficient concern with the developing world. “2. Very few and fewer each year even if they see these prob lems, I’m not sure they see them selves as being able to do any thing about them. “3. The last decade or two have been very frustrating. We’ve seen so many of our best efforts of overseas assistance misunder stood. This makes many young students not want to participate.” The stocky, black-haired Sel kow is on campus this week with two other representatives to re cruit A&M students for overseas duty with the Peace Corps. I He’s spent two years in Ghana and another two years with the organization as an associate rep resentative in charge of 112 vol unteers in Nigeria. Selkow pres ently serves as program officer for the Africa Region. His two co-workers here are Mike A. Viola, a Providence (R. I.) College graduate who has completed two-year service in Brazil, and Miss Jennie Beary, a William and Mary College grad uate with two years experience in El Salvador. , Selkow took a sip of tea (but he isn’t a Tea-Sip) and continued, “Many of the problems which we are trying to deal with are hundreds or thousands of years old. Poverty, social injustice are problems which antedate the Peace Corps in some areas by sometimes thousands of years. "For instance,” he explained, “a volunteer built a school in a South American village that hadn’t had a school in a thouusand years. There are very few places where we can do that much.” Selkow emphasized patience, tact and sensitivity in handling Peace Corps work. “In terms of the problems we are trying to solve, you can’t really determine success in five years,” he said. “People may be backward, but they can still be proud,” he ex plained, indicating the need for tact. Is there any conflict between the national War on Poverty and the Peace Corps ? Selkow claims there isn’t. “Sargent Shriver (Peace Corps director) has said there is only one War on Poverty, and it does n’t have national boundaries,” Selkow pointed out. s Turing to Texas A&M, the Peace Corps recruiter said stu dents had been “very hospitable, friendly and generous” during the team’s first two days here. Selkow squirmed in his fold ing chair, took a deep breath, locked me straight in the eye and *ent on: I "I don’t want to be a bad guest s ud criticize my hosts, but I do frel the students here are general ly not concerned with the prob- lenis of the developing world, I ftink their concern is somewhat feted. Of course, I’ve only been two days. rT have fear that students I ^ here — and on other cam- lises — are spectators. I would to see more doers. ! “A&M has a long tradition of tinging home the laurels in wag- t'gthe war. Now we are asking fen to help wage the peace, ithe same spirit, the same com- dttment can be applied to wag- t 1 ? the peace that has been ap- Ife to wagring the war, then university can be justly fed.” Diat’s pretty well phrased. TWO FOR STRINGFELLOW Aggie senior Dick Stringfellow drives in for a layup in the first half of Tuesday’s clash with the Baylor Bears. Defending is Baylor’s Jim Turner. The Aggies tamed the Baptists, 95-78, to stay in a deadlock for the Southwest Conference lead with Southern Methodist. t . MARRIAGE FORUM ■ ■ ■ ■ I Hamilton Poses \ n ■ ■ ■ | Odd Questions ■ B I In Opening Talk | By ROBERT SOLOVEY Do you prefer soft creamy candy or hard chewy candy? Would you like to be presented to a Royal Court? Do you prefer women witV long or short hair? Dr. Sidney Hamilton asked these and several other questions to more than 170 persons at the YMCA’s opening Marriage Forum Tuesday night. The questions, taken from national surveys, helped Hamilton evaluate his audience and the answers startled his listeners’, too. The knowledge of basic likes and dislikes is important in understanding the nature and motivation of each sex, he said. The first of five marriage forums was concerned with “How Can You Tell Its Love?” Hamilton divided the topic into five parts. 1. How can I be sure of marrying the right person? 2. Has sex desire influenced my choice? 3. Personality factors-courtship-infatuation vs. love. 4. Am. I socially adequate? 5. Should time and distance interfere with true love ? The almost completely male audience was told not to worry about marrying the right person. “You can’t be sure that you are marrying the right person, but the important thing is that you be the right person. “Every human being possesses the desire to maintain self- respect. There must be integrity and you must first respect your self if you expect others to respect you,” he said. “Each one of us it unique. There will never be another person in the world quite like yourself . . . nature never repeats her mis takes,” he quipped. ‘And because you are unique, each person lives in his own private world.” Hamilton noted that a couple that has arguments is more normal than one that does not, because it shows they love each other enough to disagree. “Above anyone else your wife comes first. Give her a chance to respect herself,” Hamilton said. “When you get married you are not in love. You aren’t really in love until you’ve meen maried 10, 15 or 20 years. ” He added that a couple who gets married is really still in fatuated, and unless a couple grows together, remain considerate for each other and both actively contribute to the effort needed to make marriage successful, a two year honeymoon could turn into 50 years of unhappiness. “A major cornerstone in marriage is successful sexual adjust ment, but pre-marital relations are not necessary,” he continued. “The biggest problems in marriage are communication, finances and sex, in that order,” he emphasized. “Sexual behavior can and is learned after marrige. Sometimes we fix sex on an infantile level. But a good marriage results when two people value each other more than they value themselves.” Hamilton stressed that when the rest of the marrige is stable, then sex is able to take its normal and very important place to strengthen the relationship. “A man wants a woman who is an economist in the kitchen, a lady in the living room and a bitch in the bedroom,” he remarked. “Three of the most important things are truth, beauty and goodness. Build your marriage on the good things. Most marriages could be better, but all could be worse. “It’s easy to be a lover, but to show common sense day by day is something else,” he said. “Most importantly, recognize your own limitations and realize that your partner will have hers too. Don’t overplay her few bad qualities, but consider her many good points. Hamilton said that many times we get into a pattern to expect things at certain times of the day or month and a small change can cause unneccessary agrument. “Give in love and you’ll receive proportionately,” he said. Don't go into marriage asking yourself what you’ll gain from your partner, but consider what you can give in return. “Jealousy reflects a person’s own feeling of inadequacy. It will eventually destroy a marriage. Trust is a tremendous factor in any marriage,” he noted. “There is nothing that can happen in your marriage that hasn’t happened in marriages before that have weathered the storm.” Next week’s forum concerns ‘Making Marrige Meaningful,” by Dr. Robert Ledbetter of the University of Texas. Military Weekend To Begin Friday Review, 2 Dances Top Attractions The Combat Ball Friday night begins an event-filled military weekend which will include a review by the Corps of Cadets, the 15th annual Intercollegiate Talent Show and the Military Ball. The Corps of Cadets will host two visiting generals and numerous civilian guests for the annual weekend. Distinguished military guests include Lt. Gen. Harvey H. Ficher, deputy commanding general of the Continental Army Command, Fort Monroe, Va., and Maj. Gen. Nils O. Ohman, vice commander of the Air Training Command at Randolph Air Force Base in San Antonio. The Corps will form on the main drill field at 2 p.m. Saturday for a review that will honor guests including Mr. and Mrs. Royce Wisenbaker, president of the Association of Former Students; Mr. and Mrs. Clyde Thompson of Diboll, representing the A&M Board of Directors; Mr. and Mrs. W. W. Young of New Orleans, Mardi Gras sponsors of the Ross Volunteers; Mrs. Pat Leslie of Baytown, president of the Federation of A&M Moth ers Clubs, and Lt. Col. and Mrs. Ralph B. Bilburn II of San An gelo, parents of the Corps com mander. The 1966 Combat Cutie will be selected at the Combat Ball by members of the Army Reserve Officer Training Corps. The Ball will be held at 8 p.m. Friday in Sbisa Hall. Finalists include Whitney Vick ers, Sandra Sherman, Jacqueline Lee Smith, Linda Lee Moltz, Janna DuRard', Donna LeBlanc and Vickie Nesom. Uniform is class C fatigues. Solid color battle scarves are op tional and flight suits are not authorized. The famed Tyler Junior Col lege Appache Belles will kick-off the 6:30 p.m. Saturday Inter collegiate Talent Show program at G. Rollie White Coliseum. The show will include 12 acts from nine colleges and universi ties. Bob Jay of Radio KILT in Houston, will host. Final event of the Military weekend program will be the formal Military Ball for all mem bers of the cadet corps and their guests in Sbisa Hall. The dress for the 9 p.m. dance will be class A winter uniform with white shirt and bow tie. Lake Chosen Student Senate Issues Head Simeon T. Lake was chosen Issues Committee Chairman and four other Student Senate posi tions were filled in a special election Tuesday. Lake, a senior history major, received 245 votes to Jim Bald- auf’s 109. Robert Dillard won the senior engineering representative spot as the only candidate. The junior engineering repre sentative post went to John Eeds in a close four-man battle. He received 13 votes, Fred Wright, 10; Robert Beene, 8, and Joe Woodward, 2. Richard Wagoner was elected junior representative from the College of Geosciences. He was the only candidate. John Thomas was chosen sopho more Geosciences representative in another one-man race. The special election was called to fill five Senate positions va cated after the fall semester. Ex cessive absences and lack of grade points accounted for four of the vacancies. Deadline Friday For Bing Orders Students displeased with sen ior rings received in last month’s shipment may turn in their rings and place orders for a replace ment through Friday in the Reg istrar’s Office. Martin Hamilton, representa tive for the Balfour Company, said Tuesday that students will receive replacements about May 5. Jazz dancers Lucy Lindenborn, left, and Cissy King of the University of New Mexico will be one of 12 featured acts at the 15th Intercollegiate Talent Show at 6:30 p. m. Sat urday in G. Rollie White Coliseum. The show precedes the 8 p. m. Military Ball. Chamber Launches Campus Campaign The College Station - Bryan Chamber of Commerce is in the midst of its annual community- campus membership drive this week. A&M Personnel Director Clark C. Munroe said Tuesday the organization has planned a long list of community - promoting projects for the upcoming year. Included in the program are such undertakings as street, high way, park, school, civic and cul tural improvements. According to Munroe, the civic group has aided Texas A&M socially as well as financially in the past year. Past projects include organiz ing traffic flow and appointing safety committees. Last year the Chamber of Commerce sponsored the National Science Foundation picnic and the ninth annual County Youth 4-H and FFA Livestock Show and sale. It also sponsored a downtown parking study and conducted liaison work in support of the Millican Dam. In addition, it promoted a $400,000 County Highway Bond Improvement Program. Providing direct assistance to the students, the Chamber printed and distributed “Home Away From Home” brochures. The group designed and print ed 10,000 tourist brochures and assisted in the County 4-H Youth Dress Show. New Commissioning Plans Offered By Army ROTC Two new Army commissioning programs are open to Texas A&M students, Lt. Col. R. L. Brooks, associate professor of military science, has announced. One is open to seniors; while the other is planned for sopho mores. Both lead to gold bars of Twelve members have been added to the Texas A&M Singing Cadets, director Bob Boone has announced. The new members will join the group for appearances this se mester at the Houston Music Hall, Texas Woman’s Universi ty, various campus events and a spring tour through West Texas. New members of the 55-man group include Thomas S. Gerald, freshman, Amarillo; Harry Led better, sophomore, Breckenridge; Don Currie, freshman, Bryan; Mark S. Luther, graduate stu dent, College Station; Thomas J. Orton, freshman, Fort Worth, and William S. Michalak, fresh man, Houston. a second lieutenant and a two- year active duty tour. “Every young man faces a mil itary obligation,” Brooks explain ed. “These programs provide op portunities for more A&M men to secure commissions and con tinue leadership and professional development.” Also Barry L. Whitehead, freshman, San Antonio; Law rence E. Arnold Jr., freshman, San Antonio; James H. Leach, freshman. Sweeny; James E. Ma- rek, junior, Victoria; Stephen A. Sipple, sophomore, Minneapolis, Minn., and Emmett R. Easton, graduate student, Altoona, Penn. Boone noted that the singing group will also schedule some re cording sessions later in the se mester in addition to several con cert appearances. The music ensemble has per formed throughout the South west and is featured annually at the Miss Teenage America Pa geant in Dallas each fall. The senior program is called “officer candidate school option.” Open to students under 27 years of age, it calls for eight weeks of basic training immediately fol lowing graduation. Advanced branch training, then officers’ school is scheduled to qualify for commissioning. The sophomore program pro vides a 6-week summer camp to qualify students to enroll in the advanced (junior) military sci ence ROTC courses. Designed for transfer students or others unable to take the first two years of basic ROTC, the two-year program ends with com missioning at graduation, similar to the regular four-year pro gram. In both programs, officer-can didates are paid during pre-com missioning training plus travel allowances to duty stations. Army recruiters will discuss the programs March 10 and 11 in the Memorial Student Center, Brooks announced. Detailed in- Staff employes assisting Mun roe in the drive are Mrs. Georgine Scafe, Miss Ora Mae Warren, Mrs. Dorothy Favor, Mrs. Mar garet Coleman, Mrs. Imadel Bachus, Mrs. Jo Ann Beavers, Mrs. Saranne Penberthy, Mrs. Betty Robison, Ernie Wentrcek, Don Simons and Mrs. Jean Hartfiel. FISH SWEETHEART Miss Diane Holditch, daugh ter of Mr. and Mrs. Damon Holditch, Richardson, has been chosen sweetheart of the Class of 1969. The formation is also available in brown-haired beauty has Room 106 of the Military Sci- green eyes and is five feet ences Building, he said. tall. Singing Cadets Add 12 Members